When I went through a divorce, I learned a lot of stuff about people such as who my TRUE friends were/are, etc. Chief among them was that there is no need to choose sides when a couple splits through divorce or break up, whatever. It happens a lot. Marriage is like a square dance these days with people changing pardners (not to mention the doe sey does)
Last night I greeted a friend in a split up. There are always three sides to a story. His side, her side and somewhere in the middle, hopefully, the truth. I have been privileged (or burdened maybe) to hear both sides of this particular situation...a broken marriage. The WIFE continually told me not to hate the hubby, which I wouldn't do anyway, because like I told her, I love them BOTH.
I felt some resentment aimed at me last night, but I was doing what a friend asked me to and what came naturally. No apologies.
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